FAQ - How It Works

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In addition to providing a safe and casual atmosphere where you have something you value in common with every attendee, I go through additional lengths to make this a successful event for you.

...and you don't have to be an extrovert to succeed.

I serve singles of all ages!

A) You don't have to ask someone for their phone number by the end of a night in order to see them soon.

B) I review responses at the end of an event to match people with mutual interest. This skips over awkward conversations with new introductions (or old friendships that you'd like to transition to a romantic relationship).

A) At dinners, larger in person events, or at the end of a group video conference call, I give attendees a chance to give me feedback on the night and who they most resonated with.

At times this is similar to speed dating but different as well. I list them as 'Second Dates' in my records because, unlike speed dating, I attempt for everyone to get more than this one group event to spend time with the people they hit it off with most. Thus, I work to arrange follow-up smaller group events where there is mutual interest so you can have a second less pressure way to spend more time together -before potentially flying solo on a third date! 

In addition, my events are frequently described as encouraging, uplifting and casual/fun (not too serious, definitely not a meat market, and not filled with awkward moments of standing around!).

Finally, if you want to skip the 'second date' option and simply ask someone directly for their contact info at the end of a first event, you are always free to do so.

Whether it is at a first event or a second follow-up event, if you tell me who you would like to see again I will only share that information with another person if they have also shared they are interested you!

Because only mutually interested parties are told of someone's interest in them, it does not need to get awkward when you see someone at work or church or another event I host in the future.  The 'not yet interested' individuals are never told who liked them.

If you feel my methods for 'cutting through the confusion of close friend groups' would be useful to your young adults group, meet-up group or large friend group, you can request Single Socials host an event just for you!

I've done a lot of work for you. Beyond the above steps I have created coaching 'hacks' for first impressions and social small talk. 

If you are interested in some of these hacks, please attend any of my small group coaching sessions that I will be hosting monthly or more. These sessions can also 'double' as my chance to meet you face to face. 

I work really hard to help everyone feel comfortable at my events, the outgoing and the shy. 

One reason is because...

So many positive relationships I know have one person who is clearly on the opposite side than their partner when it comes to being shy or outgoing.

That means, for many people in my database to have the best shot at falling in love, I need to bring both introverts and extroverts through my door! My husband is an introvert and he makes every day of my life better than I could have imagined. If you are an introvert, I believe in you and am dedicated to helping you before, during and after my events.

So come 'kick the tires' of what Single Socials can offer. These tools can also help in other settings such as job interviews or career networking events.